I have to admit I was going through the motions this week. I don’t know what it was. It could have been the crash following the Fourth of July weekend, but I wasn’t getting into True Romance like I normally do.

A lesser version of myself may have lashed out and pointed the finger at the Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce wedding. But I’ve grown. I’ve come to realize that there are better ways to channel my energy.

There’s no use in trying to figure out which celebrity couple is real and which is going over the top to hide the fact that it’s all a sham. That takes me to the news that had me sit up a little in my chair.

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It had me realize that I wasn’t as into it as much as I should have been on a Wednesday afternoon. That news was that Luke Wilson, at the very youthful age of 54, welcomed a baby with his 24-year-old girlfriend, Kendall Yates.

If that sentence doesn’t put a smile on your face, you might be in the wrong place.

The two, according to Page Six, had their newborn in a carrier for an event for Wilson’s new Netflix series. An introduction of their child to fellow actors and attendees of the event took place, the source told the outlet.

It’s also, dare I say, a reminder of the true meaning of love and romance. It can bring a well-known actor in his 50s and a twenty-something together.

I’m taking that optimism with me this week as we’re also reminded that it isn’t always as simple as Wilson and Yates make it seem.

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Woman happily married to her ex-husband’s twin

Who says you can’t find love within a family after failing to do so once already? Quitters, that’s who. It can be done if you start getting close to your husband’s twin brother as your marriage starts to fall apart.

Kimberly and her husband Ismael are living proof of that. This was unexpected and caught them both by surprise. It wasn’t anything that they had planned.

“I confided in him a few things that were happening. There was a very subtle, intimate moment. I started crying because I knew that something woke up in me, and it was definitely awake in him,” she told Truly.

Kimberly was married to Ismael’s brother at the time. That marriage was on its last legs and was about to collapse. Following their hearts helped that process along.

A woman finds love and marries her ex-husband’s twin. (Getty Images/iStockphoto)

“My intention was not to take my sister-in-law (back then) from my brother,” Ismael admitted. But that’s what ended up taking place.

As her marriage to her ex-husband was coming to an end, Kimberley got pregnant with Ismael’s child. This added another layer of family fun to the situation, because she already had a child with her now ex-husband.

That’s right. Not only did she marry her ex-husband’s twin, she had kids with both, making them brothers and cousins at the same time.

Nobody ever said romance wasn’t complicated. Sometimes you fall for the sibling of your significant other. They didn’t plan for this. It can about naturally.

They could have sat back and taken a look at what it would mean for them to go down this path. They could have decided to live their lives in darkness, covered by a cloud of what-if.

They chose instead to let their hearts lead the way. It’s not for everyone. Some enjoy the darkness more than others. Now they have a love story to share with others. I could be wrong, but to me that’s a beautiful thing.

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The gut-wrenching story of a woman with boobs too big to find love

A Scottish model with 30R breasts is having a hard time dating. She has dreams of finding “the one” in the next couple of years and settling down.

The 27-year-old wants to be a trad wife, but says her huge boobs are getting in the way of that. Is a traditional, loving relationship too much to ask?

Summer Robert thinks it might be. She told The Scottish Sun, “Every other conversation is about my chest. I don’t really get wined and dined.”

When she does find someone who can look past her chest, they have a hard time with the attention she receives when they go out. The catcalling and stares drive them away.

Scottish model blames large breasts for being unable to find love. (Getty Images/iStockphoto)

“I want to be married in two years. I want a husband. I want to get married so bad, it’s hard,” Robert explained.

“I want to have a farm with a man. He goes out and works on the farm and I have a wee baby and I’m cooking him dinner.”

Can’t a woman with big boobs who happens to make a living on OnlyFans find love? She wants a nice guy who isn’t boring to travel with. That’s reasonable, isn’t it?

You don’t have to worry about her career either. That could be a small factor in her striking out for a handful of people out there, but for Mr. Right, she’ll give it all up.

She said, “I don’t know if I’m going to find that because, obviously, my job and I have massive boobs. I would give it all up to find love.”

That’s a touching story. I didn’t expect that ending when I first started digging into this one.

There will be doubters out there, but I’m not one of them. I’m wishing her the best. I think she’ll find someone willing to meet her in the middle.

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When did you realize your marriage was over?

I don’t want anyone to think of this as an attempt to make a crash landing this week. This talk of divorce from those who have lived it is meant to serve as a reminder to always keep your head on a swivel.

Sometimes the exact moment you realize your marriage is over is when you catch your wife sleeping with the neighbor. Other times the moment is going to be less obvious.

Here are a few tales of realization from those who have been through it that were shared on Reddit:

• My parents gave me a car, and it needed some work, and he refused to help me. Then he suggested I sell the car to his friend. The NEXT WEEKEND he fixed it for them.
• She sat me down and told me that her “he’s just a friend” had gotten her pregnant.
• When we were in couples counseling after learning about his girlfriend (from her husband via LinkedIn) and the therapist asked why we were there. I said “to work on our marriage.” His answer: “I don’t love her, I can’t work hard enough to love her, and I’m moving to CA without her.” That was a pretty clear sign.
• When I got home from work and found a child’s mitten on the living room floor. We didn’t have children. But the woman my friends said he was sleeping with, did.
• When he told me he was still questioning if he wanted to be with me or his affair partner. The next day I told him I deserved to be someone’s certain, not someone’s maybe and that I wanted a divorce.
• I had suspicions so I placed two voice-activated recording devices in my house before I left to take my 3 kids on a trip for my birthday. I turned them on right before we left, and 20 minutes in there was a guy there. I knew I needed a divorce anyway, but that made the decision easier.
• When I found the videos on his phone of him partying in secrecy with a bunch of women that worked at our son’s daycare.
• When he had a backache and i told him we should check into a hotel with a private hot tub so we can spend romantic time together while soaking his back..He said ” why would I wanna be in a hot tub with you when I can just lay here in bed watching tv”….officially knew it was dead from the way he worded that response.
• I had changed jobs to a totally different field and was having a really hard time with my new boss. I desperately needed support from my partner, but instead of comforting me, she told me that the boss was probably right and that I sucked. From that moment on, I knew she was gone. She asked for a divorce a few weeks later.
• When she slept with the neighbor.
• After 20 years of marriage, he moved out while I was away and emailed me to tell me he filed for divorce.

Logical choice/Huey Lewis

– MP from Staunton, Virginia writes:

Sean, this week’s True Romance piece on marrying the ‘logical’ choice reminds me of the Huey Lewis and the News classic “Stuck With You ” . A song about a couple who may not be terribly romantic but still care about each other. Happy Fourth of July.

SeanJo

MP, thanks for reaching out. I hope you enjoyed your Fourth of July weekend. It feels only right that we wrap this week up with Huey Lewis & The News. Enjoy.

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