Joan Smalls hints at Candice Swanepoel rift over Tom Brady relationship in pointed ‘accountability’ post

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Joan Smalls took to Instagram Tuesday with a pointed message about accountability amid a major falling out with model pal Candice Swanepoel over Tom Brady.

“This Halloween, I’m dressing up as accountability. Apparently, that’s the scariest f–king thing some people can face,” the message read.

Joan Smalls posted a pointed message (seen above) to her Instagram Stories Tuesday evening that many believe is targeted at longtime friend Candice Swanepoel. Instagram/@joansmalls
Smalls is apparently “so furious” that Swanepoel is dating Tom Brady, whom she used to date. (The two are pictured above in 2022). Getty Images

It appeared that Smalls had re-posted the note from another content creator.

The post came just hours after Page Six exclusively revealed that Smalls is furious after learning that that Swanepoel is dating the former New England Patriots quarterback.

Smalls herself had a fling with the NFL star, but a source told Page Six that Smalls and Brady were never really serious.

Brady divorced model Gisele Bündchen in 2022. (Brady is seen above in May). Getty Images for Netflix
Smalls is reportedly telling friends to pick a side between her and Swanepoel. (The former besties are pictured above in 2019.) FilmMagic

According to our source, Swanepoel had encouraged Smalls to dump Brady — who was previously married to Gisele Bündchen — while the two were dating.

Now, Smalls is telling their friends that they need to pick a side. In since-deleted comments posted to social media obtained by DeuxMoi, she also branded her former friend of 15 years as a “backstabber.”

In another since-deleted message shared by the outlet, Smalls lamented about “girl code.”

In a since-deleted social media comments, Smalls called Swanepoel a “backstabber.” (The two are pictured above in 2019.) Penske Media via Getty Images
Sources told Page Six that when Smalls was dating Brady, Swanepoel encouraged her to break up with him. (The two are seen in 2025.) Getty Images

“And the disrespect and carelessness in how they treat you is so unimaginable. There’s no going back. Some people lack humility and moral compass,” she added.

“And the way they gaslight, lie and minimize your feelings is the worst slap in the face after 15yrs or friendship. Not a sorry said or written. Onwards and upwards!!!” her comment concluded.

In addition, Smalls also made a reference to “Summer House” in a social media comment. The Bravo show’s most recent season saw Ciara Miller and Amanda Batula’s friendship go up in smoke when the latter began secretly dating West Wilson, the former’s ex.

However, despite how Smalls may feel about the situation, it looks like Swanepoel’s relationship with Brady is still going strong.

Sources told Page Six that Brady and Swanepoel have been dating “for months.” (Brady is seen above in June). NBAE via Getty Images
Brady and Swanepoel have not posted anything about their relationship on social media. (Brady is seen above in February). Getty Images

Sources told Page Six that the seven-time Super Bowl champ and Swanepoel have in fact been together “for months” after being set up by a mutual friend.

“Candice has always been exceptionally private about her personal life, with her focus remaining on raising her children,” Amanda Ruisi, a representative for Swanepoel, told us Tuesday. “She and Joan share a longstanding history and a friendship that Candice will always respect.”

Page Six has reached out to reps for Smalls, Brady and Swanepoel for comment.

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